A Note about HIV/AIDS

Eight of the kids at Agape are HIV+. That means they need more regular doctor appointments to make sure their medicines are right and the CD4 counts are in the healthy range. The antiretroviral drugs are very effective in fighting the virus, but unfortunately they also have a number of side effects. Some of the kids are having to change their medicines because of the side effects. Last week I took three of the kids to their appointment with the doctor. The photos are of us waiting outside the clinic and with Joanne, a Canadian doctor who's been in South Africa for 28 years. She specializes in HIV+ patients and made me promise not to tell her employer that she would do her job for free if she had to.
P.S. The HIV/AIDS crisis is like South Africa's holocaust, with the government denying for years the basic facts about the disease while millions of children were born HIV positive (very cheap drugs are 99% effective at preventing transmission from mother to child) and left without treatment for years. More info here on Wikipedia's "HIV/AIDS in South Africa" page. Notably, then then health minister, known as "Dr. Beetroot", advocated a diet of garlic, olive oil, and lemon to cure HIV/AIDS.

Ratanga Junction

Last Saturday I went to Ratanga Junction, an amusement park in Cape Town, with about 50 kids from Agape's childrens homes and surrounding community and 5 other adults. The outing was sponsored by a local Rotary club, Strand Rotary. A great time was had by all.

"The Cobra" with a view of Table Mountatin in the background.
Gwennie and Fergusson on the carousel
This is the start of the hip-hop dance show. In a few minutes one of the guys from our group was invited on stage for a dance competition.

Church

Sunday is my favorite day of the week here. I love church. I didn't go to church for about ten years. Then when I started going to First Presbyterian in Houston my friends joked that I seemed to be there all the time (I really wasn't, but it was true that I was never available for Sunday brunch)... the church at Agape is markedly different from First Pres. Agape never intended to start a church, but then when some of the local gangsters wanted to learn more about Jesus, they found themselves unwelcome in the more traditional churches. It's usually very lively and the congregation is quite animated. Pastor Enock from Bel Air Pres shared the joke that the only participation from a Presbyterian congregation is maybe an "Indeed!" on Easter Sunday.

Samuel joining in to pray with the worship leaders before church
It's not uncommon for special events, like this wedding, to be celebrated in church.
The end of church. Laurel took this video when she was here.


On a recent Sunday the message was about helping those in need and the scriptures were from Luke (The Parable of the Good Samaritan and The Calling of Levi). Fergusson spoke about his time in the hospital last month, waiting with Joshua, not knowing how serious a case of meningitis he had. Fergusson thought about how if he hadn't left his job to work full time for Agape, he would have been in a much nicer private hospital, rather than the public hospital. He then felt the Lord saying to him that "I am with the poor, so I am here with you and each one of these people here." Jesus spent much of his time on earth with the poor, the sinners, and the outcasts of society; those who are humble and desperate seek him, even and especially in a place like this.

Armando, aka 'Fransie'

Fransie joked that there wasn't enough about him on this blog. He's right. So now he gets a special post. Fransie (known as Fransie because 'Armando' was too hard for the people to say and so they shortened his middle name, Francisco) grew up in Grabouw, just a couple minutes' walk from the Agape 1 premises. Most of the kids he grew up with are either in prison, recently out of prison, or on their way to prison.

Fransie became involved with Agape about 15 years ago when he attended the kids clubs. Now 25, he has a degree in human resources management and works full-time for Agape. Officially he handles human resource matters and some of the bookkeeping and leads the youth group and Sunday morning worship music. Unofficially, he does anything he's asked to do, regardless of the time of day or day of week. He is devoted to the children (both in the children's homes and in the community) and the ministry and I've seen him work selflessly since I arrived in April.

Here he is speaking with the youth at the conclusion of the fundraising breakfast they held several weeks ago. They are raising money for a late-November trip down the Garden Route to the Knysna/Plettenberg Bay area. He spends a lot of time talking with the youth about choices -- education, drugs, dating, friendships, and all the stuff teenagers deal with.
Comforting Jeannie following a particularly traumatic hair-styling episode.
With Chazno. These guys are best friends and always keep me laughing. Here we are in Chazno's dorm room. He's studying accounting at the Cape Peninsula University of Technology and gets distinctions in almost all of his classes.
Making a potjiekos in honor of Lorraine, an English volunteer who was here for six weeks and was leaving the next day.
With Ranel, Gwennie, Rezhaan, and Kay-Lynne in Stellenbosch.
And here a video of the Sunday morning worship.

Fransie has been a huge support for me here. I'm not sure if I'd have functioning phone and internet without him. He's introduced me to people outside of Agape, helped me in the kitchen (like the time he arrived at the moment I was looking helplessly at a block of concrete custard, asked for milk and a whisk and turned it into something the children could enjoy), listened to me talk about friends and family back home, driven me all over the place (not as much now that I have my international drivers license), translated lots of communication from Afrikaans to English, and given me valuable insight into the lives and culture of the people here. Whew, that's a lot! I am very grateful for his friendship.

"This woman will watch your babies"

All seven patients in the hospital room I was in with Joshua were discharged on Tuesday, including these two twin babies. The nurse came in late in the afternoon to tell their mom that she needed to go to the pharmacy to pick up some additional medications. Mom looked at the nurse and looked at her two babies. Then the nurse pointed to me and said "this woman is still waiting for her ride, she will watch your babies." Mom looked me up and down with a 'you-better-not-give-my-babies-to-Madonna' glare. By the time Mom returned, Karlien had arrived and recognized the mom as a resident of Grabouw; she'd seen her recently in the waiting room of the health clinic in Grabow. So all ended well and Mom and babies were reunited.

In the Hospital

Last Sunday Joshua had a headache and was vomiting. He went to the doctor Sunday evening and then to the hospital* on Monday where he was diagnosed with meningitis. I stayed with Karlien and Fergs' kids that evening and we all said prayers for Joshua. Tuesday we learned that it was thankfully the viral kind of meningitis (not as dangerous as the bacterial) and it wasn't even a very serious strain of the viral. I sat with Joshua all day on Tuesday and by the afternoon he was doing the robot dance in the hospital room.

Joshua and Fergusson on Tuesday morning. Fergs is in the chair he slept in the previous night. Joshua is talking with Ami on the phone. She stayed up all night praying for him.
Gwennie crashed in Joshua's hospital bed while she was waiting to be admitted for the same symptoms (took about 8 hours). She was not happy to be there, but I got this smile by asking her to show me her 'snowman hand'.

The nurse removing the IV from Joshua. The boy in the background was also discharged this day and we had a lot of fun with him. He was in for complications with his asthma.
Gordon was admitted on Wednesday. His food had been running through him since last Friday. I stayed with him Wednesday overnight and half of Thursday. The poor guy is not himself yet. In this picture he's sitting in the chair I slept in. Not that we needed anymore proof that I can sleep anywhere, but the fact that I managed about six hours in this hospital room with two other moms and babies and carpet that smelled of vomit is pretty good evidence I think.
All in all it was a great experience at the hospital. I found the doctors and nurses to be caring and knowledgeable and with great bedside manner. Some of the patients, on the other hand, were another story. On several occasions I had to get nasty with patients wandering around the ward ("Don't touch my baby!").

*Hottentots Holland Hospital (HHH) in Somerset West. The nearest state-run hospital, about 25 minutes from Grabouw.

Landi

This is Landi. She is 24 years old and lives in the flat immediately next to mine on the Agape 2 premises. She is Gerrit and Ami's first and oldest of their 10 adopted child. Landi was born during a botched abortion and was severely neglected for the first 18 months of her life. Gerrit was a social worker at the time and she was one of his cases. The family he placed her with called him after-hours to say they could not take care of her, so Gerrit brought her home for the night. The older three children fell in love with Landi and she's been with the family ever since. Landi loves her family and works full time with the children in her parents' house. One day Landi will come to the U.S. and work as an au pair. It will be a lucky family because in addition to having tons of experience taking care of children, she is also cooks delicious food. More pics of Landi here in a previous post.